Paris, the most visited city in the world. There are many popular conceptions of Paris, some positive, others negative. There are those that say Paris is the most beautiful and romantic city on the planet, while others talk about how dirty the streets of Paris are and claim that Parisians are rude and the whole city is overrated. I fall more in the middle, leaning to the positive side. I think Paris is an amazing place, though it’s not my favorite in the world.
When I left the Paris-Nord train station, after taking a train from London that went through the English Channel, I immediately noticed major differences in mannerisms and behavior of the French compared to the English.
Although England is technically a foreign country, as an American it didn’t feel too different from the United States. Sure, the English speak in a different accent and use different phrases, but the common language and the cultural similarities made me feel like I wasn’t in a foreign land, even though I was.
When I was in France, however, I truly did feel that I was in foreign territory. One of the first things I noticed when I got out of the train station was that almost everyone was smoking cigarettes. The French also talked faster, and, from my experiences, had a different idea of personal space (not that it’s always a bad thing).
There’s a stereotype that the French are rude and the Parisians are the rudest of them all. Personally I don’t find this true. Many of the French I interacted with were very nice. The taxi and Uber drivers never hesitated to help me with my luggage. The waiters and waitresses often talked to me in great detail about which wines would go best with the dishes I ordered. Random strangers were happy to help when I asked for directions, some of them even walked with me to where I needed to go. I even got a free upgrade on my flight to Amsterdam thanks to the check-in staff of AirFrance!
One of the first places I visited in Paris was the Champs-Élysées, the avenue leading to the Arc de Triomphe, built in commemoration of Napoleon’s great victory at the Battle of Austerlitz in 1805. I greatly admire Napoleon Bonaparte, and the arch he built is a glorious piece of architecture.